ohh yeah…and my bf was a virgin b4 me
my mom wants me to stay a virgin till im married and i aggred that i will. and umm i lost my virginity 2 my bf a while ago and we’ve been having sex ever since. I wanna tell my mom but im afraid of what she’ll say or do….
what should i do???
okay well just set her down and tell her b/c theres nothing she can really do about it now girl its already gone just tell her sorry it’ll pass by i promise good luck
It’s important to tell her now sweetie, because if you continue to be sexually active you could become pregnant or even contract some sort of STD’s statiscally 1 out of 4 teens have an STD when they grauduate
well it depends on how long you and your bf have been together. if you’ve been together for a long time (i.e more than 6-7 months) i don’t think she’ll be too upset. but if it’s any less than that she may be a little upset. but reassure her that he didn’t force you into anything. good luck!
STOP HAVING SEX to begin with
Tell your mom
Ground yourself for a month
Get away from the bf because he obviously cares nothing about you and is helping you disobey your mom
I don’t understand why teens tell their parents they have sex. When I was a teen, we did whatever we could to HIDE that fact from our parents. You can get birth control and condoms on your own – check out your local planned parenthood.
Also, it’s 100% okay for you not to have the same beliefs as your mom. If you think sex before marriage is okay, then it is.
You having sex is not at all your mom’s decision, and not really her business, either.
How old are you? How old is your boyfriend?
I lost my virginity four years ago (13) and I felt NO NEED to tell my mom about it.
Eventually, she found out (parents always do) and she tried to keep me away from the guy (which I’m glad now, because he was a loser)
I’m seventeen now, and my mom is way more accepting to me having sex, since she knows about it now.
Plus, I live with my boyfriend, 1,000 miles away from my mom, so she can’t do anything.
Tell her if you think you should, but if you honestly, deep down inside don’t think you should, then don’t. It’s your business. Just use protection and be very careful! You don’t want her to figure out you’ve been having sex if you have a baby bump (: That’ll piss her off even more.
Then what shouldn’t you have done?
Tell her now but be soft about it. Explain that you love him and the decision was 100% 2 way. It is your decision and for you it was the right one. She’ll respect you for taking repsonsibility. Good luck!
Hey hun,
but I wish I could have had her when I was more ready to be a mum, when I could share her with someone that I love very much! but I got pregnant by my last boyfriend and we broke up before I got pregnant.
the same thing happened to me profile picture** (obviously haha)
My mum has always taught me and my sisters to stay virgins until the night of our wedding, but only one of my sisters is still a virgin
(she is 14)… I also wanted to stay that way, but I ended up losing my virginity about a year ago (when I was 16) to my first boyfriend.
I am now 17 years old and I am 21 weeks pregnant and having sex before I was married was probably one of the biggest mistakes of my life, don’t get me wrong though. I am so ecstatic to be having a baby girl!!
I really encourage you to tell your mum, she loves you so much and she might be disappointed in your actions, but she is your “mum” and she will love you no matter what!!
Fell free to email me…
Well if you’re so scared of how she’ll react why do it?
Either tell her and have her overreact OR have her overreact WAY WAY WAY more when you get pregnant before you’re married (if it happens)
Just sit down and tell her. Say that you didn’t feel that waiting for marriage was really for you but you don’t want to hide things from her.
She might be mad, she might be disappointed but she’ll feel worse if she finds out this a long time down and you’ve been sneaking around and hiding this from her.
You should really tell your mom.. and ask her for help..
If she loves you, she will help you with the birth control pills..
also, stop having sex, you might get pregnant or get an STD (or both!).
believe me, you will have time in your future to have all the sex you want, but for now, it’s best if you focus your time in school or you will regret it once you’re older, with a kid that won’t leave you enough time for you or your career (if you ever get to have one)
that could the worst case scenario.
Um…you and your mom have a deep relationship
Why do you have to tell her?
Just don’t mention it your saving yourself an awkward conversation a lecture and shouting.
OK, don’t worry about what she says or does, she will be more upset the longer you leave to tell her, the longer you are lying to her. Just sit down with her alone, and explain to her that you are participating in a physical relationship with your boyfriend and you feel that you are ready. She might shout at you for a bit, but there is nothing that she can do to turn you back into a non-virgin, so she will have to accept it. Don’t worry, just get the courage to talk to her about it.
xx